I was shocked with the first thing Aiyu told me this morning...
"Mommy, I am a teribble kid".
At first I thought she said "I am a terrible fish". Eh, mimpi ngeri ke anak ku ini?
Bila ditanya balik, dia cakap "kid" instead of "fish".
So I answered "No, you are a good kid. Just at times you need to listen more to mommy and daddy".
Honestly, I have no clue where did she get the idea from. Tanya Cik Abe, dia cakap Aiyu cakap macam tu jugak sebelum masuk tido malam tadi.
Come to think of it, it's kinda sad.
Yes, lately we have been having discipline issue at home. Cik Aiyu skang suka sangat la dengan "no" dia. Just ask her to do something, and she will said "no". Instead of asking "Mommy, can I have xxx please", she will just say "Mommy, I need xxx now".
Amboi, mem besar ke ko?
Maka laju lah mulut mak nye macam AK-47. Tett teettt tetttttttt....
Walau pun laju, I still choose my words wisely. I am afraid she will pick up something that I will regret later. Another thing I am trying to avoid is, to compare her to Aaron, or to bring him in our argument. Takut nanti tak pasal-pasal dia geram kat adik dia kan.
Anyhow, that was this morning. Today she has been a good kid, so I keep on reminding her that she is one.
Ini umur baru 3 tahun setengah, nanti dah makin besar, tak tau la apa pulak dilemma perasaan Cik Aiyu kan.
Aiyu at Guy's birthday party.
Aaron admiring himself, hehehe...